Cracked Pot & moral of the story in corporate world

This is a story received as a forward.. and my interpretation of the moral of the story.

The Cracked Pot A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.
For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his master's house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.
But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do. After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream.
"I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you." "Why?" asked the bearer. "What are you ashamed of?" "I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don't get full value from your efforts," the pot said.
The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, "As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path."
Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some. But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again the pot apologized to the bearer for its failure.
The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house."Each one of us has our own unique flaws. We're all cracked pots. One should not be afraid of one's flaws. We should acknowledge them, and we too can be the cause of beauty. Know that in our weakness we find strength.
True leaders use these very disparate but very powerful forces for the benefit of one and all. Ultimately the ability to harness the forces and use them to the benefit of all is what sets a true leader apart from a leader.

Moral of the story:
1.The objective defined by the company (Master) and your immediate boss (bearer) may not be same.
2.A crackpot with lesser skills / half the performance might be appreciated / tolerated by your boss - as your boss might be taking ADVANTAGE of him/her.
3.Although your boss may appreciate one crack pot ( the first one), he would not be happy with second cracked pot, and may not tolerate it.

हिन्दी में ब्लोगing

यह मेरी पहली ब्लोग ऐत्ट्री है हिन्दी में।
बहुत ज्यादा मुशकिल नही है हिन्दी में लिखना।
थोडा समय तो लगेगा हिन्दी fonts का प्रयोग करना सीखने में, मगर उस से ज्यादा समय अपने thought process को हिन्दी में तबदील करने में।

You may give your child your love but not your thoughts.

I was reading The Prophet by Khalil Gibran, its a book worth understanding – not just reading.
Found this chapter on Children very pertinent.

“Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.”

Invariably parents esp the mother starts treating the child as the extension of self, and tries to achieve what they have not been able to in their lifetime. The parents start deriving a vicarious pleasure from the life of the child. This is how they end up spoiling the child. They were deprived of certain things during their childhood, and they want their kids to have it more than they could have ever dreamt of having in their child hood. Live examples: My wife wants to buy every toy whose name our son, has ever uttered. For mothers it is even more difficult to believe the fact that the child does not belong to her, and just that they are with us – independent individuals who can not be owned.

My job as a father is to expose him to life - gradually. To provide him access to opportunities of realizing his potential, of developing himself.
Walk with him through this process as a friend, till it becomes a self sustaining process.

What do you want in life

Someone asked me a couple of days back, what do you want in life ?
I dont know what his objective was, probably to get into a more challenging job profile or.. anything for that matter.
The spontaneous answer was make it big in life.

Thats true.
I want to make it big in life.
but should this be the aim?
esp when one knows the futility of it adn believes it does not really matter.
So, is it worth it ?

on the contrary, why not? What's there to loose?
Whatever is there to loose does not matter either.
:-)

NDLS - has missed the train

If someone has come to New Delhi after few years, he will be amazed to see the growth and development that has taken place.

Flyovers all over the place, Metro reaching out to most crowded bazaars in the heart of city as well as outskirts. Construction on metro is still going on at a frenetic pace to include more places in NCR. Excellent facilities at all the metro stations.

However untouched by this wave of development are the Railway stations of New Delhi.

You may choose to go to any station – New Delhi Railway station or Old Delhi or any other. all of them have are still not still in previous century.

This morning I discovered to my horror how difficult it is to move a physically challenged / sick passenger on wheel chair from platform no 2 platform no 1 at New Delhi Railway Station.

There is no proper cemented route for the wheel chair. The route which is used is made of bricks, and has a lot of pot holes. It crosses the railway track at unmanned level crossing, perfect recipe for an accident. It is of course uncovered, i.e. if it is raining you should be prepared to let your passenger drenched / and brave the pot holed brick laden route, which has a lot of goods carts (rushing for unloading their goods).

Top it all – wheel chairs are not in best shape, finding a wheel chair with both the guide wheels is a task in itself. Further the coolies are not interested unless you are willing to shell out at least six times the official tariff of Rs. 25.( that too only if it is not raining).

This is just one part of the story,

- There are not enough seats for you to wait at the platforms

- No clean toilets

- Very little parking space

- No proper drainage – little bit of rain and you have clogged roads

Passengers here are seen as botheration, not as customers who should be welcomed. Somehow you get a feeling that they think they are doing ehsaan (loosely translated – charity for you), and we the passengers are beggars and not customers. Passengers (beggars) can’t be choosers, jo mil raha hai le lo, haq se mat maango.

Rest of Delhi is much better, and of course you can’t compare it with its cousin Metro rail stations. Get into any metro station you will find the difference. For that matter you can’t compare it with stations at smaller cities either, where the number of passengers is much lesser and the load on infrastructure is much lesser.

Looks like the railway stations in Delhi are still saddled in previous century, late 90s.

Clearly New Delhi Railway station has missed the train – the development train.

Blog thru mail

The Technology is moving fast. Very fast.

This blog is getting published by dropping a mail to a mail id.

That is if I send a mail to a particular id, it will get published automatically. Great.

Saves me the effort of logging in to the blogger.

It also lets some of my friends evade websense - incase their organization does not allow to blog.

It can also be used for creating an open id, where people can just drop an email to publish their views.

 

Cool.

 

 

Fixing the wrong problem

I am surprised at the lack of clarity on part of Government of India on the reservation issue.

The problem here is not that historically some castes had been given a raw deal, that is a fact.
Problem that they are supposed to solve is to ensure that individuals of free India do not get punished or promoted because of their caste.

What was the stated objective of doing all this reservation - Equality of status and oppertunities for all Indians.

What are they aiming at, to achieve the stated objective : reserving oppertunities for certain castes.

Can we achieve EQUALITY OF STATUS & OPPERTUNITY for ALL INDIANS thru Caste based reservations ?

For that matter can we achieve equality through reservations?
All Individuals are equal, as long as you have no reservations.
There has to be some way of identifying who should get that reserved seat , and the guy who gets it is NOT EQUAL TO EVERY INDIAN (otherwise you cant identify him).

Mundane example :
A long queue in front of the railway reservation (ironically) counter.
Here the merit is - first come first serve.
No reservations ( ;-) ) for reservation. ie issual of ticket is not based on caste creed colur.
As all people are identified as Indians.
Unless you put in a criteria that sets some people apart, you would not be able to give them special status.

Assume you have been standing in such a queue for last six hours and suddenly an officail in black coat comes out and announces that all people in blue shirts ( or shades of it) will get a preferance and will have a separate queue.
He eloborates the reason for it is that till last week there was a different guy at the ticket issual counter who had a partisan view towards the people in blue shirts. That guy used to send the guys in blue shirts to the back of the queue once they had reached the counter. This guy in black coat wants to avenge for the mistakes of his predecessor, and ofcourse establish equality through this.
What will be your reaction?
Caste is to our society , what a the colur of shirt is to the queue.
The people who had suffered three months or three years back, are not there in the queue, but the people with similar colur of shirt ( or the caste) are there now.
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Now lets talk about something else. About the strategy or the method itself (assuming that the aim was right, is the strategy to reach that aim correct?)

Why are they reserving seats for various scheduled castes and scheduled tribes ( and the list has been growing) .

Why not create reservations one homogeneous block of reservation for all who need reservation as per their logic.
Everyone knows it will not work.
Lets drill down, Why is it a problem?

Stated reason : This will not provide equality for all. (taking from the above example, there are people with royal blue and some with sky blue coloured shirt)
We will not say it is vote bank, and agree to their logic momentarily.

So you identify subgroups. ( Scheduled caste & Scheduled Tribe -two groups)
Does it serve the purpose?
No. ( example : sky blue complete shirt or sky blue collors only)

So you identify sub sub groups ( break homogeneous scheduled caste group into sub groups)

Does it serve the purpose
No. They still want more divisions.
(Same tribe in UP might be more oppressed and in larger number than say in Kerala, you actually need more divisions , as you cant achieve your stated objective)

Where can it actually stop ?
Ofcourse at the individual level - from where you cant break it into any smaller group.

So can you reserve seats for everyone, whose great grand parents were at a disadvantage?
Is this method/strategy implementable fully ? Can you reserve seats for every SC/ST?
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Assuming this process is a time taking one ( as we and our parents have seen it evolve) , let us look at the impact on the society at large ( or the queue discused in our example.)

Those who have merit but are aware that they may loose because of this system will look for places to study / settle where such system is not in place ( natural , if you were in the queue mentioned in the example , you might quit the queue and look for alternate means of travel) .

People will give up faith in the system, and try to break the system. Some youth will get into revolt mode, or worse resort to unlawful methods to success. (if you had a set of like minded individuals in the queue who had no strain of blue/or were in favour of justice , you might try to throw this new guy at reservation counter out of office. OR worse just board the train without ticket and evade / fight the ticket checker)

What do we need?
More oppertunities. And ofcourse Equality. You cant undo what happend pre-independence. Post independence it is goverment's job to ensure that there is no racial discrimination.

The revolution will happen once we have more oppertunities than the people to avail them.
More options for reaching out to where they want to go.

Government needs to focus on creating new oppertunities. And they better do it fast.

Converged ICE is hot, everything else is not

Convergence of Information Communication and Entertainment is real and is already there in India. Today I use my Nokia phone to not only to make normal phone calls but make Skype calls , browse internet, listen to internet radio, apart from ofcourse recording videos, listening to songs on the 512 MB card.

True there are limitations, phone becomes unreachable while using inetrnet radio, a problem which 3G will solve.

I am sure the speed at which technology is advancing and becoming affordable, we will see a lot of new features getting integrated.

There will be a lot of oppertunities to make more money, create innovative ways to make money around this.

However are we as a nation enamoured with technology, for the sake of technology?
Has this ICE revolution done anything to better our life, add to productivity?

Certainly yes, suddenly the location has become less important, number of hours have reduced to minutes (Queue at IRCTC vs online booking is prime example). Productivity has improved ("radio" cabs on road reach to nearest customer), and much more.

Today a phone is much more than a communication device - a handheld computer that provides them access to Information Communication and Entertainment - on the move.
For people who were waiting for a commuincation deivce- a land line phone for years, this might be a bit too much and too sudden. But no one is complaining.This revolution is here to stay and pace of change will increase.